It is easy to feel wronged here and anger over those in positions of power who abuse their privileges is understandable, but I do feel it is so easy to point the finger.I do not seek in any way to condone such behaviour but I recognise how easily we can each be tempted. It doesn't take much to cross the line.
Jesus had such an insight to human behaviour when he challenged those ready to stone the woman caught in adultery
"Let he who is without sin cast the first stone" and as the spotlight fell on them one by one they left the scene. I think we need to leave the trial to those whose job it is and look to ourselves to make sure that our own lives are in order.
NowI was not able to give any sort of response from a sporting or teamwork point of view because I am terrible at sports and not the sort of person anyone wanted on their team. However I did think about this in other areas of our lives. As children we are keen to show what we can do, but often as adults we hold back perhaps from fear of mockery or not wanting to be different. This week in my Christian Studies Class quite by coincidence someone read the following quote which I thought was wonderful, it is quite well known but worth reminding ourselves of.
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous?Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We areall meant to shine, as children do. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
The above speech by Nelson Mandela was originally written by Marianne Williamson
What a good way to start the week.
Sometimes I think it is like that with God, there are times when we cannot seem to find him yet it doesn't mean he is not there just as the signs of Spring were revealed when the snow lifted, so too will we see God's presence again when our storm clouds have gone.
For God promises always to be with us, and as nature seems to come to life again, his hand is apparent. Jon Ortberg calls it the "Everywhereness of God" and the Psalmist sings " How clearly the sky reveals God's glory! How plainly it shows what he has done!"
Psalm 19 vs 1
The point is that my quick fixes were useless and only when I got to the root of the problem and worked on the solution have I seen an improvement. Isn't that also the case with our lives sometimes, we love quick fixes, retail therapy, a glass or more of wine, a self help book, yet in the end it is only when we really examine what is wrong can we stand a chance of fixing it.
Jesus spoke in terms of the vine;
" A branch cannot bear fruit by itself; it can only do so if it remains in the vine, in the same way you cannot bear fruit unless you remain in me." John 15 vs 4
I wonder if the same would work in real life.
Our lives do seem complicated at times don't they, we have so many choices,and so many demands, even walking down the bread aisle at the supermarket can involve a significant level of decision making. So perhaps it is time to remind myself what is important and to simplify the rest.
The gospel reminds us to seek first the Kingdom of God, to live a righteous life, and all the rest shall follow- how much simpler can it be.
"If you decide for God, living a life of God worship, it follows that you don't fuss about what's on the table at mealtimes or whether the clothes in your closet are in fashion.There is far more to your life than the food you put into your stomach, more to your outer appearance than the clothes you hang on your body.Look at the birds, free and unfettered, not tied down to a job description, careless in the care of God."
Matthew 6 vs 25-26 From The Message
Firstly cried, I was upset and hurt and I cried, then I felt very angry, andI composed letters of complaint to this person's manager, or more accurately I have a draft email in my laptop which on reading it now,thank goodness it did not get sent. I briefly played with the idea of revenge via a facebook campaign but to my credit did not seriously consider this. I also was vaguely aware of a verse running around my head saying "love your enemies" but that was just not possible last week.
Then I went to church and heard 1 Corinthians 13, the beautiful verses about love in particular vs 5
"Love does not keep a record of wrongs"
Sometimes verse is aimed right at us and for me on Sunday that was it, I shouldn't be plotting, I shouldn't be thinking of revenge. I have been enjoying the bestseller "The girl with the dragon tattoo" and in anyone who gets in the way of the main character is dealt with at some point in some awful way. But that is not love, in many ways that's the easy option.
As soon as I started to absorb this,my anger lifted, the knot in my stomach eased and it became easy to let it go, to put myself in the other person's shoes and to forgive their actions. I am as you can see no saint, and I needed a helping hand with this one but I do know that letting it go feels so much better than storing it up. Loving my enemy? Not quite yet but a bit closer!
I thought on that on Sunday as I came out of church because I had entered thinking of the building with an issue which had weighed heavily on me all over the weekend, however as the service progressed the focus began to change and God became the most important thing again. From that angle my worry didn't seem so bad and I started to feel much more hopeful. It was all, as they say, "back in perspective."
How easily it can happen that our perspective changes, that we focus on problems and issues rather than God, sometimes we too need to relearn and make adjustments to our perspective.
"Turn your eyes upon Jesus,
Look full in His wonderful face,
And the things of earth will grow strangely dim,
In the light of His glory and grace."
I mention this as I watch the launch of the iPad, a beautiful looking piece of technology with " the best browser experience yet " according to Apple, I like technology and I like what I can do with it, but I hope that as we spend more and more time online, everywhere, we still remember occasionally to look up. Anne Dillard once wrote that "all too often creation plays to an empty house"
There is much beauty around us; much to be noticed I hope we don't miss it !
We are all called to be light in the darkness, by our everyday actions to lighten someones day, admittedly that can be hard when we feel tired and gloomy, but ,as someone pointed out it doesn't take much, a little encouragement, a smile, a friendly chat, the offer of a cup of tea, it can be as small as that to bring in the light.
A few years ago when my children were tiny I remember days when it was wet and a short walk seemed to take hours, but as I passed by the window of my elderly neighbour Sadie, she would always be at the window and put her hands together to make a T. That was my invitation to join her fora cuppa, and half an hour later after a tea and a chat when she had played with the babies, I felt so much better. It doesn't take much to lighten the dark.
"You are like light for the whole world.A city built on a hill cannot be hidden.No-one lights a lamp and puts it under a bowl;instead he puts it on the lamp stand where it gives light for everyone in the house.In the same way your light must shine before people, so that they will see the good things you do and praise your father in heaven." Matthew 5 vs 14-16
Yesterday was Burns day and so for the Scots among us, I think the following sums it up well